Critic, passive aggressor, daffodil, stone wall and antisocial personality – people from whom you need to run as from the fire. Sometimes a real sadist could hide behind a beautiful appearance.

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Beautiful appearance, a big family, a prestigious education, a successful career – often it’s just a facade, an illusion, behind which hides a cruel man. This can be a man, a woman, your boss, a colleague or the nice guy with whom you went on a wonderful date. Of course, about any friendship or love them can not be considered.

1. Critic

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evidence

Critic condemns everything that whatever you do: your every movement and every breath. Yes, you’re doing wrong. Everything always.

You have to understand the difference: criticize – not the same thing as giving advice.

Script behavior №1

You go out to dinner with a delay of 15 minutes, without any warning. Your second half noticeably angry and instead ask why you are late or what happened, starts rattling off accusations: “You are always late, because you never think of anyone but yourself. I’m sitting here for 15 minutes! And you can never come in time. ”

It is an ideal critic. Typically, such a person criticizes your every move: “Are you really going to wear it?”, “Why did you ever …?”, “What is wrong with you?”. The list is endless. Near the critic you feel humiliated. As much as you may try, and whatever you do, you never get to do it right.

Script behavior №2

You go out to dinner with a delay of 15 minutes, without any warning. Your second half noticeably angry, but instead to lash out at you, start asking you about this habit. “I saw (a), that you are always going to be late. What happened? This is the cause? “.

This is an example of how a person is trying to understand the origins of the misconduct. Instead of blaming a particular person, he or she blames the action.

The critic may even never say anything rude to you personally. But it is insultingspeaks about your beliefs, appearance, thoughts. This is often associated with low self-esteem and a desire to keep everything under control. Instead, to help you get rid of bad habits, he reproaches you for it and suppresses personality.

Critic condemns man, not his behavior. The most disastrous experience that people can face is when someone has a parent says, “You’re a bad boy / bad girl” instead of saying, “You went (and) bad.”

2. Passive aggressor

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Narcissus in his behavior shows that its existence – the best gift to the universe: he knows everything, he is the best in everything and does not hesitate to remind you about it every minute. No matter how much you are smart and interesting person to narcissus you far.

Narcissus puts himself on a pedestal from which looks at you. You may find that you are always in some way compete with each other.

script behavior

Daffodils are not willing to compromise, feel a lack of understanding and empathy, want to always be the center of attention. Even when it’s your time to be the center of attention – on his birthday or at a party on the occasion of the increase – narcissus can win all the attention on himself. Even scandal.

The story of Narcissus of Greek mythology, helps us understand the nature of narcissism. When Narcissus looked into the water and saw a beautiful flower in his place, he was surprised. After all, in fact Daffodils hate themselves.

They are easily hurt, and when that happens, they let out the anger and hatred that accumulated due to low self-esteem . Daffodils are ready to destroy everything and everyone around when they feel that they reject or make them sick.

4. Stone wall

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evidence

Narcissus in his behavior shows that its existence – the best gift to the universe: he knows everything, he is the best in everything and does not hesitate to remind you about it every minute. No matter how much you are smart and interesting person to narcissus you far.

Narcissus puts himself on a pedestal from which looks at you. You may find that you are always in some way compete with each other.

script behavior

Daffodils are not willing to compromise, feel a lack of understanding and empathy, want to always be the center of attention. Even when it’s your time to be the center of attention – on his birthday or at a party on the occasion of the increase – narcissus can win all the attention on himself. Even scandal.

The story of Narcissus of Greek mythology, helps us understand the nature of narcissism. When Narcissus looked into the water and saw a beautiful flower in his place, he was surprised. After all, in fact Daffodils hate themselves.

They are easily hurt, and when that happens, they let out the anger and hatred that accumulated due to low self-esteem . Daffodils are ready to destroy everything and everyone around when they feel that they reject or make them sick.

4. Stone wall

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If you are dealing with anti-social type, congratulations: you got a gift 2 in 1.

evidence

On the one hand, in the nature of anti-social person present sociopathic traits: aggressive and explosive behavior, which is most often the result of childhood abuse. At least, sociopaths can penetrate sympathy.

But antisocial personality can not, because it also has tendencies of a psychopath : lack of remorse and empathy, the tendency to use others for their own interests, greed, vindictiveness.

All of us have a lot of different inclinations that society perceives as negative. We can even host discover characteristics inherent antisocial behavior. Therefore, we forgive and even sympathetic to people with antisocial behavior as forgiving and sympathetic to him.

script behavior

Do not forget that psychopaths – psychological chameleons that constantly involve other people’s emotions. What for? To manipulate others, to control the situation, to get money, sex, satisfy their own ego, and so on.

They are so good in all of this and so masterfully lie that their victims are not aware of what was happening. To counter such predatory behavior is psychologically very difficult.

It is not surprising that most people refuse to believe in it and does not accept any evidence, is not yet too late. In fact, the “love” of the psychopath – it’s just a cover.

It’s time to think

If you are in a relationship with someone who has such features, it is time to think about how you feel close to him? Avoid toxic relationship , do not be afraid to say goodbye to nasty people and cherish those who are not trying to suppress you and manipulate you.

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If you are dealing with anti-social type, congratulations: you got a gift 2 in 1.

evidence

On the one hand, in the nature of anti-social person present sociopathic traits: aggressive and explosive behavior, which is most often the result of childhood abuse. At least, sociopaths can penetrate sympathy.

But antisocial personality can not, because it also has tendencies of a psychopath : lack of remorse and empathy, the tendency to use others for their own interests, greed, vindictiveness.

All of us have a lot of different inclinations that society perceives as negative. We can even host discover characteristics inherent antisocial behavior. Therefore, we forgive and even sympathetic to people with antisocial behavior as forgiving and sympathetic to him.

script behavior

Do not forget that psychopaths – psychological chameleons that constantly involve other people’s emotions. What for? To manipulate others, to control the situation, to get money, sex, satisfy their own ego, and so on.

They are so good in all of this and so masterfully lie that their victims are not aware of what was happening. To counter such predatory behavior is psychologically very difficult.

It is not surprising that most people refuse to believe in it and does not accept any evidence, is not yet too late. In fact, the “love” of the psychopath – it’s just a cover.

It’s time to think

If you are in a relationship with someone who has such features, it is time to think about how you feel close to him? Avoid toxic relationship , do not be afraid to say goodbye to nasty people and cherish those who are not trying to suppress you and manipulate you.

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